As Isaac Asimov said: ‘Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent’, and so it has proved to be with some dill head-butting Tony Abbott while he was in Hobart1. It was a head-butt aimed at Tony Abbott’s head so it couldn’t have done much damage that hadn’t been accomplished years ago in his boxing career.
Of course, Abbott and his rabid cabal of right wing nut-jobs have used this to imply that this is symptomatic of the people prosecuting the ‘yes’ case for same-sex marriage. Abbott stated that it had come to a “pretty sorry pass” when you could not oppose same-sex marriage without being head-butted. He also stated that “no doubt there has been some ugliness as part of this debate, but I regret to say that nearly all of it seems to be coming from one side and that is the people who tell us that love is love”1. He is seemingly unaware of the café in Burnie that was threatened with arson over its support of same-sex marriage2, nor the death threat received by a 14-year-old girl in Dubbo from the barely literate father of another student at her school3, nor the bashing of Sean Foster simply for voicing his objection to a man ripping down rainbow banners and hurling verbal abuse4, nor the apparent bomb threat to the AFL’s Melbourne headquarters5, nor the death threats against a prankster saying that he’d throw ‘no’ votes in the bin6. This is symptomatic of Abbott and his ilk. The truth means nothing to them, unless it is in the service of their aims. If the truth doesn’t fit their aims then any lie will suffice. I didn’t see any expressions of outrage or even sympathy for any of these people who were threatened or attacked. Abbott’s ‘no’ crowd probably thought they deserved it. As with most bigots, hypocrisy is in their DNA.
I have had ‘discussions’ online with people who in some cases simply assumed I was gay and that I was therefore a paedophile, or in their limited vocabulary, a ‘pedo’. This sort of abuse is common coming from the ‘no’ campaigners and is just a continuation by other means of the prejudiced bashing of my friends. The ‘yes’ campaign simply states the fact that a proportion of those prosecuting the ‘no’ campaign are bigots. They cannot stomach the thought that gay people should have the same rights as they do. Why this is so, I cannot understand. Has the fact that the Netherlands legalised same-sex marriage 16 years ago affected their marriages? I suspect it affected theirs just as it affected mine; i.e., not at all.
As that darling of the right in the United States, Clint Eastwood has said: “The less secure a man is, the more likely he is to have extreme prejudice.” That seems to be rife among some of the ‘no’ campaigners.